Posts tagged difficult conversations
Oranges and Dinosaur Eggs

It was snack time at my house and my kiddo pulled a giant orange out of the fridge and told me it was a dinosaur egg.

 

In a previous life, I might have argued, stated the obvious.

 

Instead, I played along. 

This didn't always come naturally, but it's a skill I learned in improv. 

Accept what's given, build on other people's ideas.

 

That’s what I did – I acknowledged his reality and indulged in playful banter.

Why not eat dinosaur eggs for snack?

This technique has proved incredibly useful for:

 

  • Family car trips (purple gas station where the gas costs a dollar, yes please) 

  • Brainstorming sessions where teams use their imagination instead of crushing each other's ideas (possible and not just in dream land!)

  • Business meetings that spur creativity and are filled with productive discourse instead of verbal tug of war (sign me up)

The next time someone offers up a new idea, whether at work, at home, on a long car trip, or in the kitchen, instead of telling them they're crazy or why it won't work, play along.

Accept their reality. Tell them what you like about their idea.

 

It makes life more fun. 

It ends arguments. 

It exercises your imagination.

It encourages creative thinking and spurs innovation. 

You may or may not be craving holiday cheer this season (and I support your decision if you’re not), but who couldn’t use some extra creativity and innovation?

 
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Hi, I’m Madeline.

I help leaders and organizations tell their stories, lead their teams and make change in the world.

I combine a project manger’s sense of process and a creative’s sense of play to bring more clarity, creativity and collaboration to communication.

Get in touch at madeline@madelineschwarz.com

Dream with Ambition

“Dream with ambition. Lead with conviction. See yourself in a way that others may not, simply because they haven't seen it before.”   

 Vice President-Elect Kamala Harris

Yesterday, I caught the most amazing moment of 2nd-grade remote school.

They were discussing the book Grace for President and one of the students told the teacher “I think you should be president. 

She replied, “I'm honored and I hope to teach a future president.”

What are you dreaming of? 

And how can I help?

Next week, I'm speaking at the Career Breakthrough Summit, an event for professional women designed to support you as you get promoted and move toward a senior leadership role.

If you’ve ever talked yourself out of opportunities because you worry it might require too many personal sacrifices, this event is for you.

Liz St. Jean is a leadership expert devoted to closing the leadership gender gap and ending dysfunctional workplaces.

I couldn’t be more excited to share 5 principles you can use to activate your empathy and listening power in difficult conversations. Join me Monday, November 16th.

I’m one of 14 experts sharing tips and strategies to advance yourself without losing yourself.

Topics range from setting boundaries, making working motherhood work for you and taking control of your energy in the most stressful situations..

Tickets are free and you can join us here.

 
Madeline Schwarz Headshot_small.jpg

Hi, I’m Madeline.

I help quiet leaders and organizations communicate their story and invite audiences into their world.

Together we’ll transform how you communicate, at work, at home, in life.

Get in touch at madeline@madelineschwarz.com